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How Lock Picking Saved My Dad’s Life

By ITS Guest Contributor

Bogota Entry Toolset

To start off this story, I’d like to give you a brief history about my experience with lock picking.

I was introduced to lock picking by movies and television, like most of us are. Often, the action star (or assassin) would carefully pick a lock to gain access to a secret room. Being part of the tech generation and as I got older, I would look for videos online to grow my skill base. Those skills weren’t just lock picking, but all areas where I felt I might one day need that skill.

When I picked my first deadbolt, it was as exciting as solving a difficult puzzle. I saw that ITS carried a lightweight multi-sided basic pick set (Bogota Entry Toolset) and I immediately messaged Bryan to get a set. Since then, I’ve kept the Bogota picks in my wallet at all times. Randomly, I’d pull them out and practice on my deadbolt at home. Often, this included being made fun of by my wife for being nuts, but I didn’t care because I knew I might need the skill one day.

On October 17, 2013 I received a text message from my sister that read, “Dad isn’t picking up his phone. I’m worried.” My uncle then called me and told me that he saw my father yesterday. They were about to go golfing, but my father said he wasn’t feeling well. He also told me that my father wasn’t answering his phone. My father is 75 years old and a very strong, stubborn and healthy individual. He lives on his own in a second story apartment, is a competent driver and routinely goes golfing several times a week. But knowing his age, we were aware an accident could happen at any moment.

I told my sister to call his apartment complex and have the maintenance guy go check on him. She messaged me back to say that no one there was picking up the phone. When she finally got a hold of them, they told her the maintenance guy was on vacation and the property manager was sick at the hospital. This ultimately meant that there was nobody around who had a key to my dad’s apartment. They did manage to get in contact with an off-site manager, but without a key, she was only able to go knock on my dad’s apartment door. Needless to say, nobody was able to get into my dad’s apartment and check on him.

I began to panic. The off-site manager asked me if they should call the police or get some one to kick the door down. I told her to stand by because I would get there faster than the police. After telling work what was going on, I took off.

On my way there, my adrenaline was pumping. I began to tunnel vision, which is also something that seems to happen to me when training with firearms. I took some long, slow and deep breaths and gathered my thoughts. My mind was automatically fixating the worst possible situation; finding my dad dying on the floor. I realized that my lack of medical ability and knowledge would leave me helpless if I found him in such a state. My cousin-in-law John McClain (yes the name of Bruce Willis’ character on Die Hard), who, like me, also worked for Rifle Dynamics, is a competitive shooter and an EMT. I realized I should call him and ask him for some advice. I told him the situation and he just happened to be on his normal route with his ambulance. He asked me where my father lived and said he would meet me there. I got to my dad’s apartment in what seemed like a blink of an eye and John rolled up in his ambulance at the exact same time.

I made my way upstairs to his door and knocked loudly, yelling for my father to open the door. There was no response. I saw the single dead bolt lock and quickly pulled out my wallet. After some fumbling around, I found my Bogota lock picks. Apparently, adrenaline was keeping my fine motor skills from working. I set up the tension wrench and began to pick. I took me literally 5 seconds to pick the lock. As I turned the lock to unlock the deadbolt, I looked at John and asked “ok, are you ready?” He said yes and I opened the door.

I was only able to open the door about 3 inches, as my father had fallen and crawled to the door for help. His head was right behind the door. At the time I didn’t realize it, but what would’ve happened if I had tried to kick the door instead of picking it? My father would’ve suffered some sort of head injury for sure. I got out of the way for John and his partner and they went to work. They called the fire department and shortly after, rushed him to the emergency room of the nearest hospital. His condition was so severe that he wouldn’t have made it though the night if we hadn’t reached him.

About 2 hours after my dad made it to the hospital, I felt the last bit of adrenaline leave my body and extreme exhaustion set it. I was then able to reflect back at what had happened. It was a combination of skill and mindset that really saved my father’s life that day. If I didn’t have the skill to pick locks and had lock picks on me, we could have lost precious time. Second after second, my father’s life was fading and the police could’ve been miles away. Someone could’ve unknowingly busted the door down or kicked it open causing further injury. Keeping a calm mind and taking long, deep breaths, allowed me to think clearly and help my fine motor skills while picking. It also helped me from panicking while I was driving and made me think about calling John for help.

It was a scary thing that happened, but I’m so glad that I was able to do something. How many times do we lack the skill and feel frustrated because we’ve been helpless? I never want to feel helpless. Knowing practical skills like lock picking can one day save someone’s life, as it did for me. I am no master in the art of lock picking, but after this incident, I am forever a student.

Editor-in-Chief’s Note: Billy Cho is currently the Production Manager for Rifle Dynamics in Las Vegas, Nevada. He works to produce some of the finest AR-15 and AK style rifles in the country. Billy not only builds guns but enjoys honing his firearms skills as well. I’m glad to call Billy a good friend and excited to welcome him as a contributor on ITS.

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  • paul13usa

    ITStactical these work great,bought a set a while back

  • Billy, great to hear your dad got the help he needed. Great story of being prepared and having that mindset!
    I hope your dad makes a full recovery! 

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  • LTC_Hunter

    ITStactical Good article, thank you for sharing, sir.

  • Kris_Q

    Congratulations!  Your preparation and personal skill development in the face of ridicule and mocking saved someones life!  Thank you for sharing your story.  I hope others will read it and be encouraged to develop their own skill sets.

  • MelanieWu

    Great story!

  • MelanieWu

    Awesome story!

  • brendenvalks

    This article is a great case for why, no matter your age you should be learning some useful new skill that can aid you in life. Thanks for sharing Billy!

  • griffinrampant1

    a couple things just as an fyi, the fire dept can force entry without causing too much inward force using halligan pry bar. We override the jam just enough to break the door free. we can also force windows or the rear door as they are easier to fix. the fire dept can usually get there faster than ambulance or police because at least in my area there are way more fire stations and trucks than police or ambulances and most firefighters these days are also EMTs and carry BLS equipment and AEDs. At least my fire dept does.

  • JPate191

    Glad this worked out and it’s awesome to have that skill, but why not have a key to your fathers condo? I have always had keys to my parents house, in-laws house, and they have keys to mine, especially as they get older.

  • ChrisBrooks2

    A story from the other side: My father recently passed away. He kept important papers (like life insurance) in one of those fire safe boxes, but my mom couldn’t find the key. Incidentally, those locks are terribly easy to pick — the lock is more to keep the lid from coming open than to keep anyone out.

  • JohnDerochers

    how did ur dad make out

  • bigpac

    How bout you get a key to your dads apartment .having the skill set is great but it sounds like you needed it because of poor planing . If you can get too a family member faster than the police as you stated then you should have a key to let them or the fire dept.

  • kellyblack

    Excellent article, Billy! I especially love your statement about forever being a student. If only more people would realize what an important philosophy this is.

  • ottsville

    It’s great to have the skills when you need them and I hope your father is doing well.  
    Bigpac makes a good point though.  Having a key to an elderly parent’s home just seems like common sense and not just for emergency scenarios.  You could even have your locks keyed alike then you don’t have another key to carry/keep track of.

  • tecster

    For what it’s worth, most fire departments have a tool to open the door without kicking it in or damaging the door. Shove knife, or even a door jamb spreader would’ve worked.

  • DiX

    I Can totally relate to this , having found my dad the same way years ago.
    Fortunately I had a key. But the story is an inspiration to pick some practice locks , I hope. He’s doing  well.

  • Moonpiegirl1

    Ok glad you made it him fast sometimes waiting for help from local police or health care can take a long time if you are like me and live out of city limits response time is very poor due to large area and not enough law enforcement to cover. On another note…I have had a problem with some either bumping my locks or picking and coming into my home and taking my things…Think it is the neighbor man and his cohort friend across the street they are always watching me. I have got cameras but did not work as they disconnect them. I have locked and double locked all windows. but does no good! Can anyone think of what I could do next? the night I had the cameras installed they disconnected my from my internet at the box when I called the internet repair person they said that was odd that mine was the only cable that was disconnected and has been ongoing every few months So I dont know if they knew someone who works for internet company or something? that leaves me wondering if a home security system would work or not? if the internet is disconnected? I have called the sheriff  but they said can not do anything because not forced entry. Thanks/

    • Kris_Q

      Moonpiegirl1 Do you have cameras that record to a local device at your house or just to some Internet site?  If they record to a local device, you could watch it later or upload it to a site when you Internet connection is restored.  You could also get a “nannycam” style device that keeps the pictures stored on the camera until you copy them to your computer.  You could also ask if a neighbor would let you place a camera at their place that could capture pictures or video of your suspects as they enter your home or tamper with your recording equipment.

    • Kris_Q

      Moonpiegirl1 Also consider a burglar alarm.

    • Moonpiegirl1

      Hi Kris thanks…I do have six cameras that record on DVR they managed to come into my house and do something to the DVR not it will not record the problem is…I think it is the neighteers I got into a small discussion with him and he and his best friend across street are now watching me anytime I leave the house Or am outside so nanny can would not work unless I could find a really good hiding spot.obtw..they I think they are coming in via front door ..I have changed the locks many times thing they are picking the lock..thanks for your help

    • Strych9

      Moonpiegirl1 Many thieves are actually surprisingly good at what they do. Professional burglars know exactly how to defeat most basic security systems you can put in their way. 
      Based on the way you say this happens I’m assuming you’re not at home when this happens. 
      When you are home a “door jammer” is effective. Just google “anti kick door devices” and pick the type that you like the most. You can also google a device like the ”
      As for when you’re not home… that’s hard. Basically any lock can be manually picked if the person knows what they’re doing. If they don’t a snap gun will generally get them past the locks. 
      If you’re serious about stopping them there is a company out there that makes a flexible key lock. It’s a real oddball design and I don’t know how to get one but you can see it here:

  • lelslick

    hi, i am totally new to this website but eager to learn. i dont really understand the position the father was found in. its clear his head was against the door on the other side. was he sitting up against the door? thanks for clarification in advance

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